Take Notice

It takes years and countless friendships to realise why certain relationships break and some stay on for very very long. It takes a lot of thinking and realisation to actually notice the trend of failing relationships, the breaking of bonds.. Or actually making it to years and years of friendships and having them to become stronger and stronger, eventhough meetups or constant conversations aren't always there. I'm especially good with appreciating and staying on with my girl friends, but...

I realise it now, that, recently, I can't really hold boy-girl relationships cum friendships very well. It's weird how the relationship I have with my male colleagues (whom I sorta just meet too -since I started working full-time about 8 months ago) go rather well, but when I meet some new guy outside, it just breaks, sooner or later. Maybe it's in my nature to make guys my nemesis. Hahaha. It's a mystery, really.

But if I would to go down memory lane, I actually do have a number of male friends that still stay on until now, and a couple of them with whom I'm really really close with. It's strange how those guys I used to meet, I used to know many years before, are still rather close to me.. And they're not just close, but a number of them I regard as really important people in my life.

Those that I'm still close with stays on with my because they're so much more than meets the eye; they possess a strong depth in their inner qualities that would outshine any new guy that I meet along the way. The new guys that I meet are more superficial (I'm not talking about my colleagues k), their qualities are there but it only stays as far as my eyes, usually it doesn't go beyond that. So yeah. Or maybe I just have a grudge against guys because of..............

Ayways, the guys that I'm close with, mostly, have three strong qualities that they bring along in their everyday lives; Akhlak, Brains and Religion (and religion means Islam). It's either one being stronger than the other, or all weighing as strong. The rest is just based on how they present themselves. They constantly inspire and allow me to improve myself. The way I'm treated; being with them, talking to them, indirectly improves myself, especially when it comes to akhlak.

It's like the magic that's being sparkled on to me, stays on even when they're not around.. My girl friends mostly presents these qualities too. Then again, I'm just bias when it comes to choosing my girls over my boys. Hahaha.

So yeah, this proves how knowledge, religion and akhlak; each plays a very important role in our life.

Shahril, Azrul and Dzulhelmi, just to name a few. These are the three outstanding guys with whom I've been friends with for 6 years at least, that hold these qualities so strongly, there's no wonder why I'm in love with them all the time. And love doesn't have to be romantically linked. It CAN be; hehehe; but one out of three only maybe? Hahaha kidding la.

So yeah, I believe that being smart doesn't have to always be academically inclined.
Believing and practicalising religion doesn't have to mean u have to be religious.
And having akhlak is just having it, even when u might lose it's grip once in a while, u'll still get it back if u already have it.
Lastly, having and keeping friends means...? U've got to try la.. It takes two to (not to tango - we're not dancing now) make or break the whole relationship.

Until then,
all the best for my BCLS re-exam this coming Tuesday!
Au Viderzeen.